Posts tagged Motivation
Do you hate planks more than political ads?

Last summer, I learned that in England, the time-frame leading up to the election of the Prime Minister is one month. 

One. Month. 

Without getting into politics, I think we can all agree that shortening the lead up to the Presidential Election by three years and 11 months would be awesome. 

I digress. The one think I dislike about as much as listening to political pundits and ads, is planking. 

The plank position (think push up position but with your forearms flat to the ground) is an often used core exercise, ideal for people of all fitness levels. 

And I'll tell you what, planking is about as much fun as sliding down a razor blade into a pit of salt. Because unfortunately, as useful as the exercise is to improve core strength, it can also be brutally boring. 

And when you get bored, you think about other things. And when you think about other things, you forget about form. And breathing. And when you forget about form and breathing, you hang on your lumbar spine (lower back) and eventually face plant in to the turf because you quit breathing 90 seconds ago. 

So in the interest of keeping your face and lower back happy, here are a couple of anterior core (front of your stomach) options that include the plank position, but with a little variety that might cut down on the boredom.

I won't say fun. That's overstating it. 

Or you can also try this variation, performed with sliders (or paper plates under your feet), and a couple of dumbbells. 

So how do you know if it's time to progress to one of these variations? If you are able to plank with good form (hips not too low, but not too high) for five breaths, then you're probably ready to add some variety to the exercise. 

Mixed Tape Monday; Inspiration, Fitness pics, and Compassion

Happy first Monday back from vacation.

My bucket game was on point back in the day. 

Said no one ever. 

Compassion in the gym

I'm not really big into New Year's Resolutions or posts about resolutions, but I was reminded over the weekend that for many folks, January is the time to get back into the gym. And for the folks who are regular gym go-ers, it's time to grumble about an overly crowded gym, dudes curling in the squat rack, and people spending an inordinate amount of time on the cardio equipment. 

I think now is the perfect time to do less grumbling and more smiling; to take the headphones off and welcome new people into your gym community. You're kindness and welcoming attitude could play a big part in helping a new routine stick for someone. Don't forget that. Don't forget the people that helped you out in the beginning. 

If ever there was a time to smile, engage, and greet people in your gym, it's now and over the next few weeks. 

On the flip side, if you've committed yourself to a new fitness routine, don't be afraid to ask questions; about gym etiquette, about how to use equipment, or locker services or whatever. And if you don't see a staff member around, ask someone else. I promise you that underneath the headphones and intensity is really just a big ol' teddy bear.

Note: Wait until said person is between sets. Ok? 

Girls Gone Strong: Dr. Lisa Lewis

For those of you who don't know, along with personal training, I also freelance as a photographer. (I don't do weddings. Unless I'm related to you, then maybe I do weddings.) Recently, I've enjoyed doing a lot more fitness style photoshoots and yesterday I had the pleasure of doing a photoshoot for Tony Gentilcore, and his beautiful wife, Dr. Lisa Lewis. 

 

Lisa was a collegiate volleyball player and has been lifting weights since high school. She's also not afraid of cardio and teaches regular spin classes. 

 

I had the good fortune of working at a college with Lisa, who was the sports psychologist for my softball team when I was a head coach. She went on to get her Ph.D. from Boston University. Aside from being an incredibly kind, thoughtful and smart woman, Lisa also helped guide me when I decided to try my hand at strength training. In fact, she was the one who put "The New Rules of Lifting for Women" into my hands the very first time. Which, as I've mentioned a number of times on this site, changed my life. She is also married to Tony Gentilcore (check his site out), who has also influenced both my training and my current career path tremendously. 

Lisa was recently interviewed by the gals over at Girls Gone Strong and needed a few pics for the article which was just published yesterday. I have listed the Girls Gone Strong website on my resource page, and if you haven't visited, you now have the perfect excuse. Check out Lisa's interview here, and (caution: shameless plug) check out some of my photos from the shoot as well.  

Click me here. Do it. You know you want to.

Given the interview with Lisa, I thought this would be a good opportunity to share a post that Lisa wrote for Tony's site awhile back. This is Lisa and Tony's take on the Battle with Should, which I wrote about back in the spring. Click the title below to read the full post on Tony's website.

Stop Should-ing All Over Yourself

And really, truly. Happy Monday. That's it for today. Happy New Year. Resolutions or not. 

 

What is enough?

I made this one in photoshop, but I might try to find a real one. 

I don't see much of my now six-year old niece and four-year old nephew, who live in Western Pennsylvania, but a few years ago on a trip home, I commented to Adyson that I couldn't believe how tall she'd grown.

She puffed up with pride, walked over to the door jamb, and with her hand above her head exclaimed,

“I know! I’m almost up to my hand!”

It was a belly laugh moment for me and her mom (why don't we belly laugh more?), but there was also something profound about her four year old rationale.

As long as you keep measuring yourself to your hand, you’ll always be tall enough. As long as your measuring yourself to yourself, you will always be enough.  

The measuring stick to decide what is and isn’t enough fell into my hands so long ago that I can’t even remember when I started doing it. As a writer, I’ve been so focused on not being enough that I’ve given myself little opportunity to just be (see also my Battle with Should).  The problem is that kind of mentality isn’t productive. Instead of working at my craft, I chastised myself for not just organically being good enough.

And who decides what is enough? What is enough money? Enough talent? Enough success? Enough fitness? Skinny enough? Pretty enough? At what point are we content? If I lose 15 pounds I'll be happy. If I could make another 20K a year then that would be enough. Then I'd be content. But what about now? Why wait to be happy? 

It's not like I've figured this one out. I have plenty of things I'm waiting for. But every now and again it's good to remind yourself. 

I'm good enough.

I'm smart enough.

And...wait for it...wait for it...

Doggone it, people like me. 

Yeah that's right. A little taste of Stuart Smalley to get your day started. 

Stuart helps. And sometimes the wisdom of a four year old who reminds you of what it means to be enough. 

 

Tall enough, good enough, smart enough. If you compare yourself to yourself, you’re always enough.